unfortunately i dont have the observation feature
but your family tree should be shown, right? And womans are fertile between 15 to 40. and you see the kids she is having or not. sorry if im wrong.
maybe a die command would be easier at this point. haha
or they could add a way to make yourself a baby only/ eve only and you just wait until you are able to spawn as either one
fortunately my aunt is burying me. my mom (pp namer) tried to prevent me from dying