Non beginner servers

What’s the best non beginner server to play on? I’d like to switch to one that doesn’t have the easy setting, but only the Japanese servers seem to have lots of players. Nothing against the Japanese, but I just think the game is more fun when you can talk with your fam.

I play on the us server. But during nightime when i play youll rarely get past eve camp stage and if you do spawn in a good village with more than 5 people its a mater of time till someone starts greifing. Dont know about during the day though.